“The Castle in the Sky” Trailer & Theme

I recently updated my wishlist and list of favorite titles, and how could this list exist without the films of Hayao Miyazaki, whose imagination, breadth, and tender heart blow me away?

If you haven’t seen this film, you must. It’s one of those stories that just broke my entire heart, with its desire for beauty and good storytelling, and my mind with its imagination, so entirely open and broad it was with its scope. I’d never seen anything like it, animated or live action. It’s a film that haunts me, and that reminds me of the standard for experience: do something so lovely, so new, so distinct, that it really leaves its mark.

This novel is by you. It’s yours. You’re that name that will be forevermore remembered.

See the trailer and listen to the theme song (which will play for W. on repeat when she reads) below.

“The Song for Rain”

I discovered this, recently, and fell in love. It’s the cutest, most beautiful little animation, and it so happens that I love the rain and water, and have the most wild, overly-large umbrella and rain booties, which I acquired after a solid 3-4 years of losing ballet flats to NYC downpours.

On the Nature of Persons, Trauma & Healing

I hate the concept of an “issue book.”

I hate the language, as there is something about the notion of ‘issue’ that makes the question discussed seem intrinsically negative, evil, or problematic, as if being wounded was something that made one who has this ‘issue’ (say, novels about domestic or sexual violence) seem less-human, less-worthy, or so essentially different from others that there needs to be an entirely independent category for speaking about those who stand as victims.

I would say that this is a completely disproportionate, or ultimately unhelpful and incorrect, understanding of the nature of abuse, of addiction; of “issues,” whatever those issues might be. I stray away from speaking about novels that discuss hard questions as “issue books,” given that this rhetoric misses the process by which someone becomes an abuser and, then, the process by which one comes to be abused; before then, this question misses what has to happen in a life for someone to be fully healthy and therefore “not an issue.”

I learned a long time ago, and clinical psychology advances continue to affirm this, that we have to be given who we are, and that, if we are (in a general sense) born into families without affective and emotional wholeness, we will suffer the ‘consequences’ (in other words, not receive everything we need to just be and to be whole), and this might impair our entire lives.

For some reading on this question, as I’m just going to toss this out as a reflection for now, I’d say you can read Christian Smith’s What is a Person?, Alasdair MacIntyre’s Dependent, Rational Animals, and modern reviews of studies about marasmus babies and Romanian orphans. I’ve also quoted J. Brennan Mullaney’s Authentic Love before, and consider this book essential reading, especially for those who are given the gift of being parents.

Studies also continue to insist on the possibility of receiving huge emotional healing, and without breaking details here, I know it’s possible–in a way that I could not have possibly imagined when, years ago, someone proposed to me the possibility and I moved on it.

To this day, I owe that person my entire life.

I’ve ministered to persons with wounds like this, and they’ve shaken my entire understanding of the human person, of human dependency, of human needs, and I’ve compiled lists of books and resources stemming from this experience in ministry over many years.